Salam and Hi all.
So yesterday I found someone shared this post on Facebook.
The post that I found is the original status posted by the teacher, so I basically saw these both kids faces and I know the teacher's Facebook. And this one I share here is re-posted by another Facebook disagree with what the teacher has done.
And yes. me too!
At first when I found the post, I was like "Seriously this teacher?" how could he and some people think this is funny? To be honest, to me, this isn't funny at all!
But then I was like, whatever maybe it just me who think that isn't okay and if I say something, people will be like "Why so serious?" So I think maybe its better for me to left my thoughts unsaid and let it go.
Till I found another post about this issue saying that this kid named Aniq, he cry because people started to tease and body shame him. From one person, and now the whole Malaysia would know and tease him. And its not funny at all! Its now cyber bullying. Thank you teacher!
Peeps!
I don't want to go further about the teacher ethics thingy, because you know. As a teacher, he cannot do this, posted something like this on socmed. Yes yes I know not all teachers out there like to share and make things viral, but please to those who like to post things on socmed about students etc. Teacher, please be more sensitive and aware! Kids got feelings too! Think before you do, all the consequences that would affect the kids. I could go further talking about this teacher stuff but maybe not in this entry.
I know we are leaving in Malaysia which make fun of people's physical appearances seem fine, even on television, there are lots of 'jokes' made by referring someone's physical appearance. You know what? Actually, this is not healthy and need to be stopped!
Sorry but no sorry to 'pelawak' out there, that kind of jokes is the cheap one. And to some people, its not funny.
Okay back to the story! If we look on the kids side? After what happened, netizens are now laughing on them. This might lead to low self confidence, feel embarrassed on their own bodies, and even depression. We never know. Hello, they are kids. They can't handle this.
Maybe some of you might say, this is normal they are kids tho. Who says this is okay? Whatever if you think this is okay, normal yada yada. You moron. But that teacher got the bloody brain to think wise enough that is wrong and not supposed to be shared on socmed. Hello!
I have no experience in body shaming but I feel like I can feel what those kids feel. Im sorry Im triggered and sad at the same time. I feel so sorry to those kids. The teacher should know how to deal with this in a better way.
There are so many ways to show how enjoy you are in being a teacher but not by sharing this kind of story and make it goes viral. Be more sensitive on what you going to post on socmed if it would affect other people.
Till then.
Setuju sangat wak.. sama seperti menghina ciptaan Allah.
ReplyDeleteVery true indeed. As for me, the teacher has no right to post anything like that. I am not a fan of teachers sharing these kind of things via social media/s. It is simply rude to post/publish the kids’ picture without their parents’ consents.
ReplyDeletebody shaming is not okay. it will never be okay.
ReplyDeletesis tak setuju sangat3 benda ni...! cikgu tu perangai, Allahuakbar. macam mana nak hormat kalu cikgu perangai gini..? :(
ReplyDeleteit hurts a lot cuz it happens to me back in the days when I was a kid.
ReplyDeleteAgree with u sis, it shld a no no habit to post anything happen in yr workplace, kena ikut code of ethics. Btw, follow done 😊😊
ReplyDeleteOkay I kinda missed out the train of this issue but, I totally agree with you..! Teachers are supposed to educate them manners, not to take things as jokes..
ReplyDeletecikgu2 muda zaman sekarang mmng ramai sangat camtu. suka sangat post pasal anak murid diorang. sedangkan mak bapak budak2 tu pun tak buat camtu kan
ReplyDeleteAkak pun setuju dengan awak, tak sepatutnya guru tersebut post status sebegitu sebaliknya dia perlu terangkan pada pelajarnya tentang erti moral...
ReplyDeleteAgree with you. Benda macam ni boleh jatuhkan keyakinan diri dorang.
ReplyDeleteharitu pasal budak pakai kasut koyak tu. konon nak mintak derma orang awam. weh, cikgu tu sendiri takkan takde duit nak derma kasut. ni pergi viralkan budak tu tak blur kan muka, dah dia malu nak pergi sekolah.
ReplyDeletethen baru-baru ni dekat twitter. orang ss komen budak ni drpd ig. budak tu yelah dia budak lagi memang lah komen tak matang. dia tu orang tua pergi ss bagi semua orang baca lepastu kutuk budak tu. diorang ni memang tak faham makna cyberbullying ke macam mana?
Agree sis. Cyberbullying and body shaming are really serious in Malaysia. kesian dekat budak tu
ReplyDeleteanak buah cikja pun sama pena kena, last last slow talk dgn budak budak sklh tu, then dorg okayy :)
ReplyDeleteKesian kat aniq...tak patut tunjuk muka 1 Malaysia
ReplyDeletepapar muka budak tu yg x setuju..
ReplyDeleteIt's very unethical. I feel sorry for the kids haihh :(
ReplyDeleteyes, setuju!1sptutnya xyah nak pos gambar or pape pun kan. just nasihat je kat dieorg..
ReplyDeletetp sekarang zaman smua nak viral..yg jadi mangsa org dlm gmbr tu..
gurau tu tak salah, cikgu pun punya tahap stress yang amat tinggi dalam kehidupan mereka...tapi...
ReplyDeletepamer secara jelas wajah anak murid yang boleh dilihat se anterao alam itu sangat tak munasabah...
mungkin cikgu tu terlepas pandang hal tersebut..
tu pasal tempat saya kerja ada etika sharing di sosial media
ReplyDeleteTak setuju dengan cikgu yang macam ni.
ReplyDeleteTak tahu nak bezakan perkara serius dengan jenaka haish!!!
Kesian kat Aniq tu.
Cikgu tu pun dah kenapa? Nampak sangat tak fikir dulu sebelum post hailahhh
ReplyDeleteapalah cikgu tu..hemm akk pun rasa macam xde etika
ReplyDeleteagree with you.. tak patut cikgu tu post picture bdk2 tu..
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The kid, we might think that they wont remember anything we did to them, but honestly that trauma will be brought till they grew up.
ReplyDeleteand if one day they become violent, its not their fault, the one who did something to them should be blamed.
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ReplyDeleteturn off gile dengan cikgu mcm ni. dah takde keje ke eii aii
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